College Decision Time: What if I make the wrong one?

Elmira, NY (01/16/2019) — You've received several (or maybe just a few) offers of admission. Your feelings go from jubilation to anxiety all within a few days…or is it hours? The excitement of being admitted to the colleges of your choice is overtaken by the worry and concern that now you have to make a final decision. What if it's the wrong one? What if others don't agree?

We understand. And, you're not alone. We hear from students, just like you, who are nervous, elated, scared, and ecstatic about choosing a college. Choosing a college is one of the most important and exciting decisions you'll make - next to choosing your spouse perhaps. The following tips will make it easier (and less stressful) for you to choose the right college:

It's not all about the Money (or is it?)- College can be expensive…that's no secret. However, it can also be one of the best investments you'll make. But don't choose the college that is the "cheapest" or "gave you the most scholarship money." While you might think attending the least-expensive college is best for you, it might end up being the worst decision you can make. And, just because a college gives you the most money doesn't mean it's the best place for you.

Review what each college provides - internships? Check. Study abroad? Check. Undergraduate research? Check. Career placement? Check. Extensive alumni network? Check. Many colleges might look and sound the same. That's why it's important for you to take a "deep dive" into the specifics of each. Ask questions. Be specific. Demand examples. Perhaps your best option is a college that is slightly more expensive - choose it! It very well may pay off in the long run!

There's more than just name brands - Let's be real. There are a lot of colleges out there (more than 2,500 private ones alone). Some you've heard of…others you haven't. You've seen them on TV or read about them online. Perhaps someone you admire graduated from a college or you heard it from a friend who heard it from a friend. No matter what…there's a good chance you haven't heard of a college that might be the best one for you.

Be honest with yourself. What do you expect in a college? What are your goals? Why are you attending college anyway? Once you've answered those questions you can review your offers of admission. Which ones meet your expectations? Which ones provide you with the best opportunities for success? Choose wisely. Don't ONLY rely on name brand!

Admit it. The decision is easier when you visit. - Whether it's through navigating a website or scrolling through social media, flipping through a college viewbook, or the latest list of college rankings, most colleges look amazing online and in print. Beautiful architecture and flowering shrubs. Bright green grass and smiling, happy students. State-of-the-art science labs and newly-renovated residence halls. Impressive statistics and rave reviews.

How do you differentiate? Visit, visit, visit. Before making a college choice, it is imperative that you visit the campus. Visited once? Visit again. Visited three times? Visit again. Attend Accepted (or Admitted) Student Days! Stay overnight with a current student. Chat with a professor. Visit a class in your major. Get the "campus vibe." There's not a better way, and no doubt that the choice is easier when you visit. Be sure to watch for next month's post with insight on Admitted Student Days and the "Top 4 Things to Ask at Admitted Student Days."

This is an exciting, yet stressful, time for you and your family, but following these simple tips will help make the decision easier. And remember, make it about you and what you want in a college. Be excited about your choice. Be proud to wear your college sweatshirt. And most importantly, celebrate the decision and the relief that comes with it.

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