What if I made the wrong college choice?
Elmira, NY (05/29/2019) — It's May. Almost June. Your high school graduation is right around the corner and you're gearing up for your college years. You've sent in your enrollment deposit to your dream college…or did you? You might be thinking, "what if I made the wrong decision?" Don't fret. The following tips can assist you in making sure you made (or will make) the right choice - and what to do if you've changed your mind.
Don't make it all about the money (yet).
As in a previous blog post, "College Decision Time," choosing the least expensive college might be the worst decision you can make. If you chose your college because it was the least expensive, you might want to review your choice. Does that college provide you with internship or study abroad opportunities? Does that college have an extensive alumni network? Does that college provide career services support to you as an alumni? If not, perhaps you should take another look at one of your other options....it might 'pay' off in the long run.
Did you choose it because your friends go there?
Let's face it. Sometimes we make decisions because it's easy and comfortable. We're afraid to get out of our comfort zone. Your college decision might have been similar to that…perhaps you decided to attend a place where your family or friends go. Or, perhaps someone you admire graduated from there. But, is it the best place for you?
College is the best time to expand your horizons. It might make you uneasy. It might be uncomfortable. But in the end, it might be unbelievable! Look beyond your family and friends. Know what you're seeking in a college education. It might be different than what you thought. Choose wisely. It is one of your most important decisions!
Be honest. With yourself. With each college.
If you're honest with yourself, it's easier to be honest with each college. Did you choose the wrong college? Do you want to change your mind? Make sure you're making the best choice for you and not for others.
If you do change your mind, make sure you contact BOTH colleges - the one you want to attend and the one you're no longer interested in attending. If you're honest, your new school will most likely have a spot for you. And, while disappointed, the 'old' college will understand. After all, we want what's best for you!